Where the dates come from
The countdown takes your report date and backs out the travel and leave days to find the day you go. A rental plan starts with property manager interviews 60 days before that. Selling after the move lists the home 7 days after you leave, then adds the days to an accepted offer (Zillow's San Diego metro average for days to pending, which was 53 days for the week ending October 24, 2026) and 30 days of escrow. Selling before you go runs those same pieces in reverse from a closing set a few days ahead of your departure. Each one is a planning choice you can change, and holidays are left out.
Renting it out vs. selling after you move
Questions to ask a property manager
- What are the monthly fee and the lease-up or placement charge?
- Can I see your tenant screening rules in writing?
- What repair amount can you approve without calling me?
- How, and how often, will you report to me?
- How do you handle a vacancy between tenants?
- Who holds the keys and the vendor contacts?
Already at your next duty station?
If you are settled somewhere new, the sale can still run smoothly from there. Our Selling From a Distance guide covers keys, showings, repairs and signing, with a checklist you can print.
VA loan basics for owners who move
Keeping the home keeps the entitlement on that loan in use. VA.gov restores it once the home has sold and that loan is paid off, when a qualified Veteran buyer takes over your loan and puts up their own entitlement, or once, when you repay the loan and keep the house. The request can be made online, by your lender, or by mail on VA Form 26-1880. Assumptions are approved by the servicer and the VA, not by the buyer or seller.
Renting first, and taxes
IRS Publication 523 (2025) lets you exclude gain on a home sale if you owned and lived in it for at least 2 of the 5 years before you sell. Renting the home out for a few years can push a later sale outside that window.
Anyone in the uniformed services on qualified official extended duty may choose to pause the 5-year clock for as long as 10 years. That duty means orders for more than 90 days or for an indefinite period, at a duty station at least 50 miles from the home or while living in government quarters under orders. Your tax professional can match it to your dates; to rough out the numbers first, try the Home Sale Tax Exclusion Estimator.
Questions from owners on orders
Is renting it out or selling after I move the better plan?
It depends on whether the rent covers the payment, tax, insurance and HOA, how much equity you have, and whether you might come back. The Keep or Sell Calculator runs those numbers, and the Home Strategy Quiz helps sort out the bigger picture in about a minute.
What does a property manager handle while I'm away?
Typically marketing the home, screening applicants, signing the lease, collecting rent and arranging repairs, then reporting to you. Fees and duties vary, so get them in writing. California fair housing law protects applicants by military or veteran status and source of income, among other things, so screening should follow one written standard for everyone.
If I sell after I leave, how long will the home sit empty?
With the starting numbers (listed 7 days after you leave, 53 days to an accepted offer and 30 days of escrow), closing comes about 90 days after you leave, roughly 3.0 months. Add your monthly payment, tax, insurance, HOA and utilities in the countdown to see the carrying cost.
Does renting first change the tax picture when I sell later?
It can. The home-sale exclusion in IRS Publication 523 depends on 2 years of ownership and use within the 5 years before the sale, and people in the uniformed services on qualified official extended duty can pause that window. Your tax professional can run it against your own dates.
Planning estimates only, not legal, tax or lending advice. Not affiliated with the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs or any government agency, including the Department of Defense and the military branches. The real dates come from your orders, your lease or contract and your escrow officer, and Rudy Flores is a real estate agent rather than a lawyer, tax professional or lender.
Sources, checked October 30, 2026: Zillow Research, mean days to pending, San Diego metro, weekly (smoothed) (week ending October 24, 2026); VA.gov, Eligibility for VA home loan programs (restoring entitlement) (updated September 22, 2026); VA.gov, About VA Form 26-1880 (updated May 27, 2026); VA.gov, VA home loan limits (updated August 12, 2025); San Diego Association of Realtors, Navigating Post-Closing Occupancy: RLAS vs. SIP (August 27, 2025); IRS Publication 523 (2025), Selling Your Home (2025 edition); Military OneSource, PCS and military moves; Military OneSource, Power of attorney basics (April 17, 2026); MilitaryINSTALLATIONS, Naval Base San Diego legal assistance; California Civil Rights Department, Housing; California Secretary of State, Notary Public Handbook (January 2025).
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